What to say to your ex?

Speaking to your ex for the first time is difficult, especially if you still have feelings for them.  If you have hopes of getting back together with your ex then the first words you speak to them after a break up are very important.  Think about what you are going to say before you call your ex.  You don’t want to freeze up and bore them to death, and you also don’t want to break down and start crying.  Have a clear agenda of what you will say and why they should listen to you.  Remember to start slow and ease your way back into their life.  Going too fast might just scare them away for good.

18 August 2008 | Home